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My Heart Behind Homeschooling Our Girls



As a mother, I believe my second highest calling—after becoming a wife—is raising our children. It’s a responsibility that weighs heavy on my heart, not because it feels like a burden, but because it feels like an honor. Being a mom is more than just caring for our daughters physical needs; it’s about shaping their hearts, minds, and character in a way that reflects God’s will for their lives.


This Monday, September 9th, we start on our 8th year of homeschooling, and what a journey it has been! I can hardly believe we’ve come this far, yet at the same time, I have no plans to stop until all three of our girls graduate. Homeschooling has become a special part of our life, one that has allowed us to nurture our children not just academically, but spiritually, emotionally, and in their character.


Why We Homeschool


There are many reasons why we chose homeschooling, but at its core, it’s about more than just controlling the curriculum or the pace of learning. For us, it’s deeply rooted in the desire to raise our children with the mindset of the Lord. We want their education to reflect more than the world’s expectations of academic achievement; we want it to reflect God’s heart for them.


Academics are, of course, important. We want our girls to be well-prepared for the future, confident in their abilities, and equipped with the knowledge they’ll need to navigate the world. But even more important to us is who they are becoming—their character, their compassion for others, and their love for the Lord. We want to raise girls who are deeply connected to their faith and aware of their unique roles in God’s Kingdom. 


Character Over Curriculum


Homeschooling allows us to focus on what truly matters: character. We have the incredible privilege of walking alongside our girls daily, helping to shape their hearts. We can ground their lessons with biblical truths, teaching them not just math and reading, but patience, kindness, forgiveness, and the value of hard work. Which, if you have children of your own, you know this is no small feat.  And something our whole family needs “lessons” in, on a daily basis. 




Contributing to God’s Kingdom


Ultimately, our desire is for our girls to contribute to God’s Kingdom in a meaningful way. Homeschooling gives us the opportunity to teach them that their lives are not just about personal success or being happy, but about serving others and glorifying God. We pray that through this journey, they will grow into young women who recognize their God-given gifts and use them for His purpose.


We believe that by keeping Christ at the center of their education, we are giving them the foundation they need to thrive—not just in this world, but where they will spend eternity. As we begin our 8th year, I’m more committed than ever to this journey. Homeschooling has become a way for us to continually point our girls back to the Lord, reminding them of who they are in Him and what He desires for their lives.


Homeschooling is not always easy. There are days when I feel overwhelmed, and moments when the responsibility feels too much to bear. But each year, I’m reminded that this calling is one of the most meaningful ways I can serve my family and the Lord. 


Here’s to another year of learning, loving, and walking with the Lord.

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